|First recital 2009|
|Our Original Posse|
|Left to Right: Kayla, Anna Ryane, Darby, Laura Beth and Carolyn|
The Project UP kids told me things today like, "Did you know Darby is in heaven now? I bet she's dancing up there." Or, "Darby has died but she will always be in our hearts, won't she?" Or the best one, "Could you be quiet for a minute? I'm trying to talk to Darby right now." One girl said, "I'm going to miss her a lot but she'll be here every time we dance," as she pointed to her own heart. Once again, I underestimated our students and their capacity to grasp what's really important in life.
|Camp Merrimack 2009|
And so we will grieve the loss of a beautiful child, a child who taught us so much. The lessons I learned from Darby were to accept everyone just the way they are; to start and end every day with a smile; to enjoy every single thing you do every single day; to say I love you to the ones you love…a million times a day. Darby showed me what courage looks like, not just as she battled cancer but every time she came to dance class. Darby showed me what joy looks like, every time she smiled. When I looked at Darby, it was like getting a little glimpse of what God must look like. I ache for her parents as they face the staggering loss of their only child. I will remind myself that Darby was a gift in my life and that even though five years wasn't enough, I was blessed to know her for as long as I did. And every time our students take the stage, I know Darby will be with me, right here in my heart.